Father-In-Law Day 2024 is on Tuesday, July 30, 2024: In-Law Day - Father In Law been sick, need ideas for father day?

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you're father in law is very fortunate to have a daughter in law like you since he is feeling useless let him get in on some of the suggestions maybe he would like to go out for a nice dinner with his family being with you all should make him feel that he is very important to his family ,ask him to tell some stories from his past when he was a young boy i have noticed older people enjoy doing this ,and last but not least each one of you tell him what he means to you and what an inspiration he has been in your life and how much you admire him as a husband a dad a grandfather and a father in law this should make him see he is the #1 dad

How to deal with a rude father-in-law on Father's Day!?

I agree with you that your father-in-law was very rude, and I can see how this makes you feel the way you do. But you will help yourself and your family if you rise above these feelings rather than letting them eventually lower you to your father-in-law's level. It sounds like he's a bit emotionally disturbed; I feel kind of sorry for him. Why would the old man have kept that door in his basement for so long and why would he want you to take that door so badly? It must have some special meaning to him; maybe it reminds him of happier days. His move to try to get it into your new addition was in some ways his attempt to be an honored participant in your lives; clearly he saw it as a nice gift. His inability to understand your reasons for not wanting the door and his outburst when you didn't accept it show his very human limitations - I'm not sure why he would react that way (is he an alcoholic? is he bottling in feelings about his wife's death?) but I think if you refuse to take it personally and instead realize that it is a sign of his flaws you will see that there is no good reason to hate him, because hate neither improves the situation nor makes you a better person. There is a saying "Hate the sin, love the sinner" and I think it applies well in this situation. By trying to understand the cause of his rudeness and not taking it personally, you may even be able to reconcile with him and have a more pleasant family life on the many occasions when you can not avoid him. I'm not sure whether you should attempt to avoid him, especially on this upcoming Father's Day; it could fuel the fire a little more since that could give him one more thing to gripe about, on the other hand it may be a wise idea if you are still really angry at him and would be likely to blow up at him.

Either way, I don't think one occasion makes or breaks things; what is more important is the on-going way you deal with it. Don't let his rudeness get you down and don't cave in to things you don't want just because he throws a temper tantrum, but be polite and loving yourself, if you can manage it, and in the long run things will be better.

Appropriate fathers day gift for my gay father in law?

Anything that would be fitting for another father. Being gay does not call for any kind of special attention. Gay people comb their hair, bathe, brush teeth, eat and sleep like the rest of us. They are only different in terms of who they prefer sexually and that is nobody's business on father's or any other day. He is the father of the man you love so a thank you dad card would be perfect.